My fellow men ask me about " seducing women " and "how to relate to a woman " and other such topics frequently .
But honestly the best answer for all of these sort of questions is "experience."
But needless to say the next question is how do you get experience if you don't know how to attract women?
You meet women, approach women, and observe women any way you can for as long as it takes to get comfortable with the subject. Then when you are comfortable you date women, date women, date women. It is called serial dating.
And when I wrote my first book, "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year", some people thought I was nuts.
I guess I should elucidate. I am not a cheater and don't believe in cheating. That is not what serial dating is about. Serial dating is about the times you are NOT in a relationship. It is about what you do in between relationships. It is about sensibly selecting a companion.
Now I would be the first one to agree that a person who "multiple"¯ or "serial"¯ dates with no purpose of ever doing anything else would have at least some major "relating"¯ issues.
But, serial dating applied inside the right context is not only not dysfunctional, but it is quite the opposite. Serial dating done to get a better comprehension of the opposite sex, so you can figure out who you have a preference for, and what you like, and what kinds of folk like you, is about the most mentally healthy thing you can do.
Do you remember what good old mom and dad use to say to you when you were a teenager?
"Don't get too serious with one person. You need to meet and date different people.
It may seem childish, but this teenage advice is what most adults who are looking for a mate need to remember.
First of all, most adults never followed their parent's suggestion and dated lots of people. Most people seem to have a pattern of connecting with the first acceptable¯ person who shows them some real interest.
But bear in mind, there is a big difference between "acceptable¯" and "ideal"¯ and also sad to say most people commonly continue this routine of connecting with the first "acceptable"¯ person who comes along well into adulthood.
We call this "settling".
We call this "compromising".
We call this all sorts of names years later when we realize we aren't happy.
You see there are many different types of people in the world and, believe it or not, there is someone for everyone. But the problem is you may have to meet a heck of a lot of people to find that one someone.
Another problem is that many people are so confused about life and relationships and people, they don't really have any idea of what kind of personality is a good match for them. They base their ideals off of the Hollywood imagery of what they think they want.
But the cure for all of this is not very complex. You see, when you meet and date a lot of different people a natural learning process emerges. It is called experience. No matter how dumb you are, you figure it out sooner or later. Some people sooner. Some people later. You can learn about anything this way, and there is no better teacher.
And believe it or not, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever successfully done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out and got a lot of experience.
Factors Which Needs To Be Considered While Selecting The Right Singles Online Dating Sites
With the explosion of singles online dating sites has come a virtual smorgasbord of choices. There are free online dating sites, I don't recommend those but if money is a real concern, they are better than nothing.
Get Back Your Ex-Girlfriend As A Result Of Becoming Less Available And An Increased Challenge To Her
One of the most educational things you can ever do is to talk with your ex-girlfriend's closest friends to see what she was like in the earliest days of your relationship. Almost always her friends will tell you that almost all she could think about was how to make you hers.
Let's Take A Look At David Deangelo And Double Your Dating
I give David Deangelo and Double Your Dating a 6 1/2 out of 10 rating because the "Cocky and Funny" stuff although workable, isn't situational and doesn't work as good as Mr. L. Rx's stuff (Dating To Relating) which I find to be the best overall system.
The Real Scam Rating Of David Deanglo And Ross Jeffries
Article looks at David Deangelo (Double Your Dating) and Ross Jeffries (Speed Seduction) and evaluates them in terms of are their materials, books and information scams?
How To Approach Any Woman, Always Successfully.
What to do to get the conversation going when there is seemingly nothing to talk about. How to spark conversation with ANY girl in a very simple and effective manner.
Overcoming Fears: Lowering The Gradient As A Way To Meet Up With Girls And Connect With Women
When you feel uncomfortable and fearful just try to think of a lower gradient that isn't as scary and allows you to make forward progress toward your goal.
The Real Truth Regarding Neil Strauss And What You Need To Know About The Game
Neil may be the most famous of all of these Dating Advice Guru's and his historical New York Times best seller "The Game" certainly was no scam. However, I tested his ideas and they are out of date.
First Dates: What To Avoid, If You Wish To Catch The Attention Of Women. - A Wonderful Guide For More Information
Attracting women - How to avoid making mistakes guys make on the first date that prevents ever getting a second date or developing a sexual relationship.
Romantic Weekend Breaks - Excellent Ideas
Romantic breaks are good for us after the stress of the work week, but they do not need to be expensive, do not have to involve travel, and do not have to last the whole weekend, although if you can manage the time, it'll probably be good for you.
But honestly the best answer for all of these sort of questions is "experience."
But needless to say the next question is how do you get experience if you don't know how to attract women?
You meet women, approach women, and observe women any way you can for as long as it takes to get comfortable with the subject. Then when you are comfortable you date women, date women, date women. It is called serial dating.
And when I wrote my first book, "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year", some people thought I was nuts.
I guess I should elucidate. I am not a cheater and don't believe in cheating. That is not what serial dating is about. Serial dating is about the times you are NOT in a relationship. It is about what you do in between relationships. It is about sensibly selecting a companion.
Now I would be the first one to agree that a person who "multiple"¯ or "serial"¯ dates with no purpose of ever doing anything else would have at least some major "relating"¯ issues.
But, serial dating applied inside the right context is not only not dysfunctional, but it is quite the opposite. Serial dating done to get a better comprehension of the opposite sex, so you can figure out who you have a preference for, and what you like, and what kinds of folk like you, is about the most mentally healthy thing you can do.
Do you remember what good old mom and dad use to say to you when you were a teenager?
"Don't get too serious with one person. You need to meet and date different people.
It may seem childish, but this teenage advice is what most adults who are looking for a mate need to remember.
First of all, most adults never followed their parent's suggestion and dated lots of people. Most people seem to have a pattern of connecting with the first acceptable¯ person who shows them some real interest.
But bear in mind, there is a big difference between "acceptable¯" and "ideal"¯ and also sad to say most people commonly continue this routine of connecting with the first "acceptable"¯ person who comes along well into adulthood.
We call this "settling".
We call this "compromising".
We call this all sorts of names years later when we realize we aren't happy.
You see there are many different types of people in the world and, believe it or not, there is someone for everyone. But the problem is you may have to meet a heck of a lot of people to find that one someone.
Another problem is that many people are so confused about life and relationships and people, they don't really have any idea of what kind of personality is a good match for them. They base their ideals off of the Hollywood imagery of what they think they want.
But the cure for all of this is not very complex. You see, when you meet and date a lot of different people a natural learning process emerges. It is called experience. No matter how dumb you are, you figure it out sooner or later. Some people sooner. Some people later. You can learn about anything this way, and there is no better teacher.
And believe it or not, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever successfully done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out and got a lot of experience.
Factors Which Needs To Be Considered While Selecting The Right Singles Online Dating Sites
With the explosion of singles online dating sites has come a virtual smorgasbord of choices. There are free online dating sites, I don't recommend those but if money is a real concern, they are better than nothing.
Get Back Your Ex-Girlfriend As A Result Of Becoming Less Available And An Increased Challenge To Her
One of the most educational things you can ever do is to talk with your ex-girlfriend's closest friends to see what she was like in the earliest days of your relationship. Almost always her friends will tell you that almost all she could think about was how to make you hers.
Let's Take A Look At David Deangelo And Double Your Dating
I give David Deangelo and Double Your Dating a 6 1/2 out of 10 rating because the "Cocky and Funny" stuff although workable, isn't situational and doesn't work as good as Mr. L. Rx's stuff (Dating To Relating) which I find to be the best overall system.
The Real Scam Rating Of David Deanglo And Ross Jeffries
Article looks at David Deangelo (Double Your Dating) and Ross Jeffries (Speed Seduction) and evaluates them in terms of are their materials, books and information scams?
How To Approach Any Woman, Always Successfully.
What to do to get the conversation going when there is seemingly nothing to talk about. How to spark conversation with ANY girl in a very simple and effective manner.
Overcoming Fears: Lowering The Gradient As A Way To Meet Up With Girls And Connect With Women
When you feel uncomfortable and fearful just try to think of a lower gradient that isn't as scary and allows you to make forward progress toward your goal.
The Real Truth Regarding Neil Strauss And What You Need To Know About The Game
Neil may be the most famous of all of these Dating Advice Guru's and his historical New York Times best seller "The Game" certainly was no scam. However, I tested his ideas and they are out of date.
First Dates: What To Avoid, If You Wish To Catch The Attention Of Women. - A Wonderful Guide For More Information
Attracting women - How to avoid making mistakes guys make on the first date that prevents ever getting a second date or developing a sexual relationship.
Romantic Weekend Breaks - Excellent Ideas
Romantic breaks are good for us after the stress of the work week, but they do not need to be expensive, do not have to involve travel, and do not have to last the whole weekend, although if you can manage the time, it'll probably be good for you.
