I am preparing to make a wild guess here, and yet could it be that as time went on, you became less and less of a challenge for her? And could it be that now, you are zero challenge for her? And that she realizes if she wanted to, at any moment she could easily get you back again and wrapped around her finger just by saying the word?
I am going to be crude here, but as you know, to develop into a challenge once more you must demonstrate to your ex that her sexuality has no influence over you any longer. Think about what it's like when you're stalking her with not returned telephone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And after that think of what it's like when you keep doing it (as many guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You are indicating to the woman that you're a low-value guy without any other dating alternatives.
She won't respect you again until you refuse her sexual power over you. Fortunately you're doing that now by not personally corresponding with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.
You should definitely stay 100% strict with your communication cut-off. Do not be "friends" with her, because that rewards her with the continued validation of power over you while supplying her a comfortable justification to stay broken up. (She reasons that she is letting you down easy that way, assuaging any guilt she may experience.)
Then again, you should definitely keep her locked in with your stuff. Most likely lots of your possessions are at her place, and vice versa. She may even owe you money as well. She could ask a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you'd like all of it back.
The best response to this is definitely "No, not yet. The reason is because her possessing your things (and you possessing hers) is still locking you two in and ensuring future communication. You do NOT want to give her the psychological closure that would result from settling your accounts.
For the next 3 weeks, you need to totally recognize -- and embrace -- the undeniable fact that you're an independent man now. Take what happened with your ex-lover and learn from it. You've got a golden opportunity to transform your life which will finally allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.
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